Man I keep getting haunted by a case of the sads thanks to living with my bestie, when I thought the opposite would happen.
The girl he’s seeing also lives with us, and he had to pull teeth to agree to living with the two of them at once because living with your SO is not a thing that I take lightly, but it was the only living option I had aside from staying with my mom until something else came up, which was out of the question.
He just seems to think that she is the only one that he owes his time to? He prioritizes her a lot, which is also disheartening. He spends all his time in his room unless she wants to do something, for the most part. I’m not entirely sure how to communicate that I want him to spend time with me without sounding like a dick.
So instead I sulk.
I thought he was grown up enough that I would be living with my friends and not living with a couple I guess is the issue. But I guess that’s the sort of thing I should talk to him about because it was also the situation he implied would absolutely not be the case.